But of all the things and next to nothing is...

Doing something you really love to do as a daily vocation.The very best examples of this are people who have been given the opportunity to find this on their own terms.Completely on their own terms.That means being free from many traditional ideas people have that they never questioned as to how they got them.I hate to preach to the converted including hating preaching period but why would it ever be wrong for people to spend their time wisely by using it apropriately.Change is not social stygmata and either is time.Who does not applaud the idea that at various points in life we each have to foccus carefully on what we can do to gratify ourselves and the world around us.Social action is no different.its common to find that men often do not focus their goals to the exclusion of other quick gratifications.Often a social reason but the inferiority a man may may feel could compel him to put romance first.I made that mistake many years ago but I think it was the right mistake,No reason to invent a crises because of it.So......as i was saying....the best of us take the time to do things they love consistently or at least go out to find it and know that whatever good they have will come to them at the right time and place without worry over "relationship".I do not think a very succesful career means a sacrifice in ones humanity but it requires prioritizing in a very emotionally concise way.If people put their pririties in order like this then perhaps there wouldn't be so many divorces.Relationship is not for helping your partner pretend something in their mind is real let alone should it be side tracking and keeping them from action.Demanding in any way???????????Only one person can be demanding in a relationship to a greater or lesser extent.I wish my love for what is exactly as it is and should be could be written by me but it sounds off.I do not have to explain myself but I have because It tells me alot about life and people.I am in love with exactitude you could say.If I love something and understand it I know I do when My heart stays constant and free from doubt regardless of changing relativw position.Time is observable and clarity emerges .Deep sincere love of about any form leeds one to to a deep inner love that would not ever feel unnatural about the flow and time of nature.It does not ask of others to do anything but be themselves including....however they involve themselves with you.