just in case someone reading this feels me

I was writing in my normal confused way to no one I know of with any certainty.I sorta missed the point namely...if someone were to say to me(hypothetically ) that they were "happy for me even though i am on the other side" i do not see how.On the other hand I don't wish to dictate to others what there emotions should be.I do not wish to decide when someone should love me.If I did I would be doomed to never being loved or knowing love.Again i repeat myself....love comes from unexpected places.The following well known quote from the "crabby apostle"paul is all I meant by love.

Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things.


I find life easier when I am not resentful and judgemental or aversive.Its human to get that way sometimes and I know there are many who are mostly that way and are very successfull in their lives.people are interesting and i am curious about "being on the other side".Oh well!